A New Way to Love: Re-Igniting the Spark in Your Relationship |
Posted: June 20, 2017 |
There are several reasons that you may lose some of the sexual sparks in your marriage or long-term relationships. Individualized issues, having children, or simply being together for a long time can all have an effect on a couple’s intimate relationship. Even the happiest couples will run into issues in the bedroom. Fortunately, the best love and care could remedy these problems. When things dry up in the bedroom, there are a few different reasons for this. Sex happens much less frequently than it used to, or in some cases, it does not happen at all. It may also have become routine, boring, unexciting – perhaps neither of you are tempted. It may also be that only one partner initiates sex and is often rejected by the other, for one reason or another. So how can you get over these bumps and save your relationship? Boost your feel-good chemicals, such as serotonin and dopamine, together. Do something fun, work out, find something new to explore. Kiss more often. Kissing and hugging each other often, even when it may be a struggle at first depending on your situation, you will begin to realize once more why you came together in the first place. Cuddling is an important part of any relationship, and it can be just as intimate as sex. Make a list of things that you would like to try in the bedroom. From something relatively tame to a whole new set of toys, talk to your partner about what they would be willing to work. Even when you are having troubles engaging each other in sex, it is a possibility that something new and exciting can re-ignite that flame to burn hotter than ever. Sometimes, it can be enough to reminisce on the past simply. Most people would say to never live in the past. However, remembering how you felt on your first date, on your wedding day, or during the pregnancy of your first child, you and your partner can take a pleasant walk down memory lane. Remind yourselves that, although you are having trouble now, you were once cohesive and in love. You can always get back to that. Or, you can take the route that many do when they want to create an unusually happy mood in the bedroom: visit your local adult toy shops, whether it is a new toy or a new concept, you will want to find something that works for you and your partner. Still, in love, do not give up on each other: only find a new way to love.
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